Relationships are one of the hardest and confusing things ever. I hear people wish for one on a daily basis (ME..LOL) or say that they are ready for one. A lot of people say "just be patience, don't rush it your time is coming", but that one person that you are waiting for never comes when you want them to. I do believe that everybody has somebody that they are supposed to be with, your soul mate. Right? In order to get to this one right person you have go through a million wrong people. And it's always the wrong person that you can’t let go of. Not saying that there is something wrong with finding out what's right for you, but why does the cost of that have to be a broken heart?I can relate to wanting a person and not being able to have them or see them the way you want to, and only when it's convenient for them. Hearing all the right stuff but at the wrong time. Convincing yourself that things will change and get better, but in the back of your mind they don't. Liking this person so much that just the thought of them pisses you off because it could never be what YOU want it to be.This year I have witnessed some of most devastating situations (that made me think twice about wanting a relationship) that I thought I would never see. I can’t pretend that everything is good but I can’t say that everything all is bad in relationships. But I can say everything happens for a reason, and that if you keep going through the same thing with the same person then it’s a lesson you need to get outta it; and hopefully things will change but in all reality what do you do when things don't change? Everybody is so quick to say "Well if it was me I would do this and that or Girl just leave him alone...” But they never say if it makes you happy, then keep doing. <--Why? Have you ever noticed how many people know the answers to your problems, but can't figure out the solutions to their own problems? <---Crazy huh? I do believe that God puts people in your life for a reason and if you try to stop talking to a person and they keep coming back---What does that tell you? Don’t fight it and lie to yourself because you never know what can happen ---forget what everybody else opinion is because at the end of day the only important element of your life is “YOUR HAPPINESS”. You can be in what you think is the worst situation in the world and try everyday to fix it—but the ONLY way to have COMPLETE control over a situation is to realize you have no CONTROL at all….HUMBLE YOURSELF BEFORE YOU HUMILATE YOURSELF..
-Shannon
